Tiny Thoughts This Week

*Your goals are not big enough.
Not because you lack ambition, but because you’ve already adapted them to feel safe. Truly meaningful goals should stretch your identity, not just your calendar. If your plans don’t make you slightly uncomfortable, they’re probably designed to be approved rather than achieved.

**The best way to network is to do something interesting.
Relationships form naturally around substance. When you focus on doing thoughtful, original work — and share it openly — the right people find you. Networks built this way last longer because they’re rooted in respect, not transactions.

***If everyone likes you, you’re doing something wrong.
Disapproval triggers something ancient in us. Our brains still treat rejection as danger, as if being excluded means we won’t survive. But the rules have changed. Progress now belongs to those willing to be misunderstood.
Choosing yourself over universal approval will cost you comfort — but choosing approval over yourself will cost you meaning.

🏆 Insights This Week

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What Resignation Timing Often Reveals (An HR Perspective)

Employee exit reasons often follow predictable patterns based on when someone leaves — not just what they say in an exit interview. While individual circumstances vary, resignation timing can provide a useful diagnostic framework.

Within the First 3 Months

  • Commonly linked to role misalignment

  • Job description and actual responsibilities do not match expectations

  • Insufficient onboarding, handover, or probationary support

  • Lack of clarity around priorities, success measures, or systems

What this signals: A breakdown in recruitment accuracy or onboarding execution.

6 Months to 1 Year

  • Employee is familiar with role responsibilities, SOPs, and workflows

  • Able to operate independently and meet baseline expectations

  • Resignations during this phase are often linked to:

    • Direct manager relationship

    • Leadership style or communication issues

    • Lack of feedback, trust, or support

What this signals: A people-leadership issue rather than a role-fit issue.

1 to 2 Years

  • Employee understands the organisation beyond their role

  • Greater exposure to company culture, fairness, and decision-making

  • Departure drivers often include:

    • Misalignment between stated values and lived culture

    • Perceived lack of fairness or transparency

    • Unclear or unrealistic growth pathways

What this signals: Cultural credibility and internal mobility concerns.

3 to 5 Years

  • Role mastery achieved; learning curve has flattened

  • Work becomes repetitive or stagnant

  • Limited progression, skill expansion, or role evolution

What this signals: Insufficient career development, succession planning, or role redesign.

More Than 5 Years

  • Strong organisational knowledge and tenure

  • Departure often driven by:

    • Desire for new challenges

    • Industry change or personal reinvention

    • Fatigue from long-term role repetition

What this signals: A need for renewal pathways, second-career tracks, or lateral movement options.

Key HR Insight

Exit interviews are valuable, but resignation timing often tells a more honest story than stated reasons alone. Patterns across tenure bands provide clearer guidance on where systems, leadership, or culture require intervention.

Used consistently, this framework allows HR and leadership teams to move from anecdotal explanations to structural diagnosis and prevention.

Till next time,

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Disclaimer: This content is carefully curated from publicly available sources and is provided for informational purposes only, while we try our best to verify all information presented, we cannot guarantee 100% accuracy or completeness.

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